Apart From Religious Reasons, Why Should We Avoid Premarital Sex?
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I'm not saying I'm a Virgin. Personally, I believe that Sex should be engaged in by TWO CONSENTING individuals who understand it's implication and consequence thereof when abused. I think it's sheer hypocrisy when people condemn pre-marital sex based on religious reasons, meanwhile, they're likely chief perpetrators should their garb of self-righteousness be removed. So, apart from religious reasons, what other arguments can you put forward as reasons to avoid pre-marital sex. Don't talk about STDs because that can be avoided using condoms. No quoting of bible or quran or any religious book. No insults nor bashing. Let's have a discourse like reasonable intellectuals
I'm not saying I'm a Virgin. Personally, I believe that Sex should be engaged in by TWO CONSENTING individuals who understand it's implication and consequence thereof when abused. I think it's sheer hypocrisy when people condemn pre-marital sex based on religious reasons, meanwhile, they're likely chief perpetrators should their garb of self-righteousness be removed. So, apart from religious reasons, what other arguments can you put forward as reasons to avoid pre-marital sex. Don't talk about STDs because that can be avoided using condoms. No quoting of bible or quran or any religious book. No insults nor bashing. Let's have a discourse like reasonable intellectuals
WOW!!! Interesting question, well...I've almost concluded on the outlook that it is probably only in Nigeria that sex has morphed fom being a conservatively overvalued act exclusive to a variation of connubial practices peculiar to our society to a sybaritic means by which all manners of materialistic demands can thereupon be negotiated and as cherryice generalized it as an all African thing, I came to disagree on my view and that of hers since neither of us has been through the lifestyles of other non-Nigerian.
South Africans who I think are as much sexually open and expressive as most Americans may find it be displeasing with most Nigerians after seeing through their thick layer of lasciviousness concealed under such rectitude that makes even the Mother Teresa seem unholy.
The degree to which I think Nigerians are so particular in maintaining a morally upright character is interpretable as a reflection of the society at large in respect to an increasing moral decadence and a rising depravity, all in pursuit for monetary fulfillment. I maintain that it is the decaying sense of strong cultural values and the utter disrespect for tradition and age-old customs that once defined our societies but now rapidly been supplanted by the notion to expect such illusive rewards that are promised by agents of imposed imperialistic religions, saturating the nooks and crannies of our communities the youngsters and upcoming generations see no value in the sort of disciplines our respective socio-cultural standards instills.
This factor alone is solely responsible for twisting the minds of our people (youths and adults) about sex by successfully dividing them into those who have been conditioned to deem it offensive when matter bordering on even basic sex-education is discussed (MFM and Deeper Life sheeples) and those who are so mind-locked to act stolid through the creed hammered down their mind depending on the Abrahamic denomination they slavishly choose to sell their 'reasoning faculty' to. Some even ascribe all things pertaining to sex to 'unclean spirit' (Muslim sheeples) meanwhile majority of these religionists turn out to be the most promiscuous majority in Nigeria. Hypocrisy would be an understatement.
Need I say more...
...disprove the argument first.
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This is a really nice blog and I think your articles are well worth the read. My only advice would be that you should use more common words and also at the end of the day restate your position because someone can get really lost with all this your big grammar. You also could do away with abuse of established religious bodies. Most Nigerians are blindly devoted to their spiritual masters !!
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